You know I’m a pretty optimistic person. Even when the signs are there sometimes I don’t pick up on them because I am hoping for the best. Part of my problem isn’t I don’t always realize that not all people’s intentions are good. And even though mine are innocent doesn’t mean that applies to the other person. But the thing is I never want to pass of plain of pessimism for realism. I don’t want to be cynical about others. I want to be able to put my trust in others and know that there are people with good or like intentions to mine. That being said I should have been smarter in this situation. At least now I know better for that specific person though. Not everyone but this person in specific. Ah, well such is life!